Thursday, May 31, 2007

So much confusion here..

I don't know what to think now. For nearly 53 days I had no communication from my wife at all. Now 2 days ago she wanted to make it very clear to me that she's not in love with the guy she's living with, and she wants me to stop telling everyone that he's her new boyfriend and she doesn't know why I assume he is? Well.. Because she left me and moved in with him that's why. She never talked to me once for almost 2 months that's why. How could I not? Why is that so hard to understand? Hell any sane rational person would have assumed an affair.. Right? Anyway she went on to tell me that she's concerned about my health, wanted to know how my counseling was going, told me she wanted me to get better. But she won't discuss anything else such as the impending divorce. So.. I don't know what to think. She felt it important for me to believe she's not in love with the guy she's living with, wants to know how I'm doing, wants me to be healthy and get well.. This doesn't sound typical of a woman anxious for a divorce does it? I'm starting to believe she maybe having second thoughts? Or is that wishful thinking. I asked her that, she won't answer. I should really quit torturing myself this way.

1 comment:

The_Corinthian said...

Jesus, after reading this I firmly believe that you're not the one that's crazy!

She leaves you.

She makes sure you know that she doesn't love him but she'll live with him?

She is worried about your health even though she helped to make you crazy (you are the other culprit).

Someone is seriously bent.