Done..done and done!

Well I learned a lot at the attorney's office. I can't really discuss the particulars here but suffice it to say I'm not nearly as worried now. I've done everything I can do now its in other hands than mine. Now its just a waiting game. Either she comes back or she doesn't. Either she talks to me or she won't. In any case I'm ready for whatever comes and I just have to use my time to make ME happy. Make a life for ME. If she wants to work out the property split with me to save the painful experience and costs of a full blow trial it would be in her best interests to do so. I'm right here. She knows how to reach me. I'm not going to fight with her. I doubt she will do the smart thing and talk to me though. She hasn't done a smart thing since she left. In fact she's done a couple things that are actually detrimental to her. I was allowed to call her, until such time as she told me "Don't call me again" which she never did. So I was safe there. I'm in no danger of "Disturbing the peace of the other party" or harrassment. Now I sit on hands so to speak. Get on with my life. I'm at peace today.